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Week 4 of Advent: Love – The Reason for Everything

We’ve journeyed through weeks of preparation. We hoped for God to come. We acted in faith when circumstances screamed defeat. We experienced the joy of transformation. Now, in this final week before Christmas, we arrive at the deepest truth: Love. The reason for everything.Advent helps us prepare our hearts spiritually for Christmas by walking through hope, faith, joy, and love:the deepest themes of what we’re celebrating.

Quick answers: Advent week 4

What does the fourth week of Advent represent? Love:specifically, God’s incarnational love demonstrated by sending Jesus to earth.
What color is the fourth Advent candle? Purple (or rose), representing love and anticipation of Christ’s birth.
What is incarnational love? Love that doesn’t stay distant but becomes present:just as God became human in Jesus to be with us.
Why does Advent matter during Christmas preparation? Advent helps us prepare our hearts spiritually for Christmas by walking through hope, faith, joy, and love:the deepest themes of what we’re celebrating.

What Is Advent Love?

What is Advent Love?. Not the greeting-card version. The love that pursues and storms castles. The love that endures all things. The love that came to earth as God in flesh.

Before we go deeper, we need to be clear about what we’re talking about. God’s love is not a feeling or emotion. It’s a divine disposition: God’s character to be self-giving and for the good of the other, even at great cost to himself.

Love as Sacrifice and Self-Giving

The clearest expression of God’s love is Christ at the cross. God the Son exchanged heavenly glory for earthly servitude. He didn’t demand we prove ourselves first. He loved while we were still sinners, still opposed to Him, still broken.

Paul captures it: “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

This is love not in word but in deed.

Love as Covenant Faithfulness

God binds himself to his people not because they earned it, but because he chose to. His love is faithful: enduring through our unfaithfulness, our doubt, our wandering. He loved Israel when they forgot him. He came back, again and again. His love endures all things.

Love as the Culmination

Here’s where everything comes together:

Hope whispers: God will come.
Faith responds: I will act.
Joy announces: He has come!
Love reveals: This is why.

Love is the answer to the entire Advent question. Love drove the incarnation. Love sent God to earth as a vulnerable child.

Jesus said the entire gospel hinges on just two commandments: love God completely, and love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:37-40). Love is the interpretive key for everything God does.

The Scandal and Cost of This Love

The incarnation is not sentimental. God didn’t come as a concept or inspiration. He came as a vulnerable infant, grew in obscurity, lived as a servant, and died as a criminal:all to bridge the gap between sinful humanity and holy God. This love cost everything.

Christ’s incarnational love culminated in substitutionary sacrifice. He didn’t just show us a better way; He paid the price we owed. He bore God’s wrath that we deserve. He endured separation from the Father:the deepest possible suffering:so that we could be reconciled to God. This is love that is not safe, comfortable, or easy.

And here’s the scandal: we cannot earn this love or deserve this love or work ourselves into being worthy of this love. It comes to us while we’re still broken, still rebellious, still opposed to God. That’s what makes it grace.

The Window: The Princess Bride and “As You Wish”

In a castle, in a fantasy world, a farm boy demonstrates something true about incarnational love. His name is Westley. His refrain is “as you wish.”

Westley Remained the Farm Boy

Westley didn’t become the Dread Pirate Roberts and stop being the farm boy. He remained the farm boy while being the legendary pirate. He never ceased being the one who says “as you wish”:even when storming castles.

This is Emmanuel: God with us. Not distant. Not weak. Not limited. God present as both infinite power and intimate presence, unified in one person.

Jesus didn’t stop being God when he became human. He remained fully God while becoming fully human. Westley embodies this paradox: both legendary hero and humble servant, storming castles and saying “as you wish.” His identity as the one devoted to her good is never suspended, even when operating at legendary power.

A note on the limits of this illustration: Westley is a fictional character:his story ends, his love is romantic rather than redemptive, and he doesn’t require the sacrifice Christ required. The incarnation is far more scandalous than any film can capture. But in these specific ways:persistent pursuit, self-giving love, humble presence alongside power:Westley helps us see what incarnational love actually looks like in motion.

Westley’s Love: Three Movements

What does incarnational love look like in action?

Through service:the daily “as you wish.”
Farm work, ordinary moments, no grand gestures. God’s presence not in the spectacular but in the mundane. The infinite expressing love through daily grace. The difference between saying “I love you” and showing up day after day: “As you wish.”

Through sacrifice:willing to bleed and face death.
Climbing the Cliffs of Insanity with bleeding hands. Enduring the Machine. Facing death itself rather than renounce her. Paul captures it: “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13). Westley’s willingness to sacrifice everything mirrors Christ’s willingness to endure the cross:not as a grand gesture, but as “as you wish” taken to its uttermost limit.

Through persistence:returning again and again.
The entire Dread Pirate Roberts arc is driven by one thing: getting back to her. Storming the castle while outnumbered. No obstacle stopping him. Returning again and again. This is God’s relentless pursuit of His beloved:pursuing us, calling us back, refusing to give up. Love that doesn’t abandon us when we fail. Love that endures all things. Love that says “as you wish” even when we’re engaged to someone else, even when we’ve forgotten, even when we’ve said no.

He loves us before we love him back. His love precedes our response. As Paul says: “While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

What This Means for Us

At Christmas, we remember God’s love. It is complete. Not theoretical. Not from a distance.

He came. He served. He exposed himself to suffering and death for us. His love endures all things. It doesn’t demand we prove ourselves first: it precedes our response.

This love redefines everything:

  • Our brokenness doesn’t disqualify us (Hope)
  • Our doubt doesn’t defeat it (Faith)
  • Our emptiness can’t contain the joy of receiving it (Joy)
  • Our unworthiness is no barrier: this is where love finds us (Love)

Now God’s love in you should teach the world how to love. Not in word, but in deed. Through “as you wish”: the willingness to give yourself for the good of the other.

The Call: Your Turn to Say “As You Wish”

This is Advent Love: God’s willingness to be with us. Not from a distance. Not through intermediaries. God here, present, serving, bleeding, dying, rising to restore us.

As we enter Christmas, we celebrate the most radical truth: The infinite God loves you so completely that He became one of us.

And now:because you’ve been loved first, because grace has reached you:He invites you to learn from Westley. To say what Westley said again and again: “As you wish.”

But here’s what we need to understand: you cannot love incarnationally on your own. This isn’t a bootstraps-and-willpower kind of call. The love that storms castles and says “as you wish” daily and accepts the undeserving comes only from the Holy Spirit working in you. It flows from being loved so completely by God that you’re freed to love others without needing anything back.

This is the Gospel pattern: You are loved → You are transformed → You love others.

So this week, don’t approach this as a to-do list. Approach it as an invitation to let Christ’s love work in you. As you’re reminded of how completely He loved you, ask the Spirit to overflow that love through you toward others:

In service: Show up for someone in the mundane. Not with grand gestures, but day after day. The meal, the presence, the willingness to serve without recognition. This is what “as you wish” looks like when you’re no longer demanding that others earn your love.

In sacrifice: Choose someone’s good over your own comfort. Bleed a little. Risk something. Show them what love costs and what it’s worth. This is incarnational love:it requires something from you.

In persistence: Return to someone you’ve given up on. Call back. Show up again. Love that doesn’t quit when circumstances argue for it. This is God’s pattern with us. Now you, live it out.

He did this for you. He paid the price. He endured the cost. He loved you first.

Now, empowered by that grace, you say: “As you wish.”

And that’s the entire gospel lived out.

What would it look like to say “as you wish” to one person this week? Share in the comments below. I’ll be reading every one.

Grace and Courage to you as we enter Christmas.

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Week 3 of Advent: The Gospel Joy That Can’t Be Contained

Hi everyone,

As I write this, the days are getting shorter and the pull toward the holidays (and all its chaos) is strong. I found myself re-watching Scrooged the other night and was struck by something I hadn’t seen before: a powerful picture of the very joy Advent points us toward. Let’s explore it together.

What Scrooged Teaches Us About Grace, Transformation, and Irrepressible Joy

This is part 3 of the Advent Blog Series. Start with Hope, then Faith, then Joy, and finally Love.

There’s a moment in Scrooged when Frank Cross realizes the truth. The ghosts have shown him what he’s become: a man who built an empire while his soul atrophied, who achieved everything the world tells you to achieve and found it empty. In that moment of reckoning, something breaks open in him. He laughs. Not a cynical laugh, but wild, irrepressible, almost reckless laughter. He gives money to the Cratchits with genuine delight. He reconnects with people he’d abandoned. He experiences what he’d been missing: connection, generosity, being loved, being part of something bigger than himself.

That’s joy.

Not the manufactured happiness our culture sells us. Not the fleeting pleasure of getting what we want. Not even the relief of escaping consequences. Real joy. The kind that overtakes you when you suddenly realize it’s not too late, that transformation is real, that grace is actually available to you.

This is what Advent Week 3 invites us toward.

What Is Joy? (Not What We Think)

We often confuse joy with happiness. We treat them like synonyms. But they’re fundamentally different, and that distinction matters, especially in Advent.

Happiness depends on circumstances. It’s fleeting and circumstantial. We manufacture it through consumption, achievement, distraction. We believe that if we get the right job, the right relationship, the right circumstances, happiness will follow. But happiness is always pointing toward the next thing. It’s the perpetual wish for what lies just beyond reach.

Joy is different. Joy originates in God and what He has accomplished, making it fundamentally relational rather than circumstantial. Joy is the deep, settled knowing that you’re loved, redeemed, forgiven, and part of something that matters. It’s not manufactured through willpower. It’s a spontaneous emotional response rooted in the Holy Spirit’s presence. Christian joy is spiritual rather than natural: a supernatural capacity to maintain deep confidence in God’s sovereignty even when life’s surface roils with pain.

Paul the Apostle writes something remarkable: “as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing” (2 Corinthians 6:10). Do you see what he’s saying? Joy doesn’t require the absence of sorrow. Joy doesn’t deny grief or pain. Joy and sorrow can coexist because joy isn’t circumstantial: it’s relational. It’s rooted in who God is and what He’s done, not in whether today is a good day or a hard day.

The fruit of the Spirit is “love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23). Joy is one aspect of the Spirit’s unified work in us, alongside love, peace, and the other manifestations of His presence. It emerges from being loved by God. It’s not something you achieve; it’s something you receive.

Joy Throughout Scripture: Victory and Restoration

In the Old Testament, joy is closely tied to victory and deliverance. When David returned victorious from his battles, he was met with singing, dancing, and joyful celebration (1 Samuel 18:6). Joy marked religious celebration: sacrifices (Psalm 27:6), feasts, songs of praise (Psalms 20, 33, 47). But notice something important: joy was taken away during exile (Ezekiel 24:25; Joel 1:12) and promised to return with restoration (Isaiah 35:10; Jeremiah 31:13).

The pattern is consistent: joy celebrates deliverance. It’s the people’s response to being saved, restored, brought back from exile. It’s what happens when the imprisoned are set free.

In the New Testament, that same movement continues. The disciples return with joy because “even the demons listen to them” (Luke 10:17). But Jesus redirects them. Don’t rejoice in spiritual authority, He says. Rejoice “that your names are written in heaven” (Luke 10:20). The ultimate joy isn’t in power or achievement. The ultimate joy is in salvation itself. It’s in belonging to God.

John the Baptist understands this perfectly: “The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice” (John 3:29). In the New Testament, joy focuses on the presence of Christ: the bridegroom. His presence is cause for joy. This is relational joy: not achievement-based, not happiness from circumstances, but joy from being in relationship with the one you’re made for.

The Good News of Great Joy

“Do not be afraid,” the angel says to the shepherds. “I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord” (Luke 2:10-11).

Imagine the scene. Shepherds keeping watch in the dark. Ordinary men, outside the reach of the powerful, tending sheep on cold hillsides. And then: light that blinds them. A presence that unmakes their assumptions about the world. A voice announcing news so staggering that it shatters their sense of what’s possible. “Do not be afraid.” As if fear is the only rational response to what they’re witnessing.

Notice what the angel doesn’t say. He doesn’t say, “I have information for you.” He doesn’t say, “I have good advice.” He says, “I have good news that will cause great JOY.” Not calm assent. Not polite acknowledgment. Joy so powerful it demands response: it has to overflow, has to be told, has to be sung. The shepherds don’t stay in the fields quietly reflecting. They abandon everything to find the child. They run toward the news with the urgency of people who’ve encountered something that rewires their reality.

This is important for Advent. We’re not preparing for Christmas as if it’s just another holiday. We’re preparing our hearts for the announcement that God loves you so much He came for you. The response to that news is joy.

Joy Flows From Grace Received

Jesus tells His disciples something astonishing: “I have told you this, so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete” (John 15:11).

He’s not saying, “I’ve given you information.” He’s saying, “I’ve given you my joy.” Not as something they achieve, but as something they receive from Him. Complete joy comes from union with Christ.

Even more directly, in His final prayer before the cross, Jesus says: “I am coming to you now, but I say these things while I am still in the world, so that they may have the full measure of my joy within them” (John 17:13).

Jesus wants us to have His joy. Not a diminished version. Not a trial-sized sample. The full measure. His joy, complete in us.

What makes this possible? Reconciliation through Christ’s substitutionary death. Paul writes: “For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Not only is this so, but we also boast in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation” (Romans 5:10-11).

Here’s the crucial theological truth: Christ bore the wrath of God in our place. He took the punishment we deserved. He didn’t just show us a better way or inspire moral reform. He accomplished our redemption through His substitutionary sacrifice. Baptist Faith and Message 2000 affirms that “in His substitutionary death on the cross He made provision for the redemption of men from sin.”

This is why reconciliation produces such deep joy. We are restored to God not because we reformed ourselves, but because Christ satisfied God’s justice on our behalf. Our sins are paid for. The relationship broken by sin is made whole again, not through our effort, but through His finished work.

Notice the word: boast. Reconciliation is cause for joy so deep it overflows. Being restored to God through Christ’s substitutionary sacrifice (having the relationship broken by sin made whole again) produces a joy that boasts, celebrates, cannot be contained.

Scrooge’s Transformation: A Picture of Gospel Joy

The film Scrooged shows us something worth watching closely: what happens when a hardened heart is broken open. Frank Cross, the protagonist, is an executive who learns a profound lesson about joy and transformation.

Frank Cross has everything the world promises: power, success, control. But he has nothing that matters. His soul is atrophied. He’s built walls so high that nobody can reach him. And then comes conviction.

The Ghost of Christmas Past forces him to feel again. He watches the moment he chose money over love: sees his younger self say yes to an investment deal and no to Clare, the woman he loved. He doesn’t just understand the choice intellectually. He feels the cold calculation of it. He tastes the bitterness of a love abandoned.

The Ghost of Christmas Present shows him the real cost of his choices: not as statistics, but as flesh and blood. The Cratchits struggling to stretch a meager meal. Tiny Tim, fragile and suffering. The warmth in their small home despite poverty, contrasted with the cold emptiness of his. People laughing together while he sits alone.

The Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come shows him the silence. A grave unmarked and unmourned. A man erased. He doesn’t just see it. He experiences the existential dread of a life that mattered to no one.

That’s conviction. The scales fall off his eyes. He sees what he’s become.

And then comes repentance. Real repentance. Not regret at consequences, but heartbreak at what he’s become. A turning around. A commitment to a new way.

And then comes change. He gives to the Cratchits not begrudgingly, but with laughter. He connects with those he’d abandoned, with genuine affection. And the joy. The explosive, irrepressible, almost reckless joy. He can’t contain it. It overflows into generosity, into restored relationships, into a new way of living.

Where the Analogy Ends (And Gospel Begins)

But here’s where we need to be careful. Frank Cross’s transformation in Scrooged is powerful: it’s moral reformation, a man becoming better than he was. But it’s not the Gospel. The film itself is rooted in Dickens’ Victorian moralism: a cautionary tale about consequences and the power of human conscience to change.

The Gospel is different. The Gospel isn’t primarily about us becoming better versions of ourselves. It’s about us being made entirely new: not through fear of consequences, but through reconciliation with God through Christ.

Moral reformation (what Frank Cross experiences) says: “See what you’ve done. You have the power within you to change your behavior. Be a better person. Your effort, your willpower, your moral conscience can transform you.” Frank Cross becomes a better Frank Cross. He reforms his life through human determination.

Gospel regeneration (what Christ offers) says: “You are dead in sin. Not sick. Not misguided. Dead. Your will is enslaved to sin; you cannot free yourself. You have no power to change what you fundamentally are. But Christ died for you. He took your place. He bore God’s wrath that you deserve. He rose again, conquering death itself. You are made new: not improved, but remade from the inside out by the Holy Spirit’s power. You are adopted into God’s family. You are loved not because of what you do or what you become, but entirely because of what Christ did.” We become new creations, not improved versions of our old selves (2 Corinthians 5:17). This is the work of God’s grace alone, not human effort.

Frank Cross’s joy flows from moral achievement: he conquered his sin through his own determination. He changed himself, and now he can live differently. The joy is real, but it’s fragile. It depends on his continued effort and virtue. If he lapses, if he fails, if his willpower falters, the foundation of his joy collapses.

Gospel joy flows from grace received: God did it. God accomplished it. I didn’t earn it through effort, and I can’t lose it through failure because it’s not based on my performance or my virtue. It’s based on Christ’s finished work and God’s unchanging character. That’s a different kind of joy altogether. It’s deeper because it’s not dependent on my ability to maintain myself. It’s unshakeable because it’s rooted in God’s covenant love, not my consistency. It endures through my failures because it’s grounded in Christ’s perfection, not my reformation. It’s rooted in permanent reconciliation with God Himself: a relationship that cannot be broken because it’s sealed by Christ’s blood.

The Gospel Pattern

This is the pattern Scripture shows us:

Conviction (awareness of sin, its cost, its grip on us)
Repentance (genuine turning around, not just regret)
Faith in Christ (receiving what Christ has done for us, not trusting in our own reformation)
Transformation (the Holy Spirit making us new, producing fruit)
Joy (the result of being reconciled to God, loved completely, made new)

Frank Cross goes through the first four steps (in a human way). But the Gospel adds what Frank Cross (and indeed, what Scrooge before him) doesn’t have: the substitutionary work of Christ, the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, permanent reconciliation with God, and the full measure of Christ’s joy in us.

When Jesus tells His disciples, “I have told you this, so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete” (John 15:11), He’s offering something altogether different from Frank Cross’s experience: His joy. Not the joy of being a better person, but the joy of being loved by God, of being made His child, of knowing your sins are forgiven not because you reformed yourself, but because Christ paid the price.

The Gift of Faith

But how do we receive this joy? How do we move from guilty sinners to forgiven children of God?

Paul answers: “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith: and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God: not by works, so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9).

Notice what Paul says: grace saves us, and faith is the instrument (the means by which we receive that grace). Faith is not something we work up or achieve. Faith itself is a gift from God. It’s the Holy Spirit opening our spiritual eyes to see Jesus as He is: the substitute who took our place, the one who bore God’s wrath, the risen Lord who defeated death.

When we believe in Jesus (when we trust Him instead of ourselves, when we rest on His finished work instead of our own effort), we receive justification. We are declared righteous, not because we are righteous, but because Christ’s righteousness is credited to us. “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (2 Corinthians 5:21).

This is the difference between Frank Cross’s experience and Gospel salvation:

  • Frank Cross trusts in his own moral transformation
  • Gospel faith trusts in Christ’s substitutionary work

The joy that follows is completely different. Frank Cross’s joy depends on his ability to sustain his reformation. Gospel joy rests on the unchangeable, finished work of Christ.

That’s Gospel joy. And that’s what Advent prepares us to receive.

Joy as Generosity

“God loves a cheerful giver,” Paul writes (2 Corinthians 9:7).

Frank Cross’s radical generosity in Scrooged flows from joy. He doesn’t give reluctantly or grudgingly: he gives with laughter. His joy overflows into restored relationships and radical provision for others. He’s not checking a box. He’s not trying to buy his way to peace. He’s experiencing joy so deep it has to express itself through giving.

This is the pattern we see everywhere in Scripture:

Grace received → Joy experienced → Generosity expressed

When you truly understand that you’re forgiven, reconciled, loved by God, the natural response isn’t grim duty. It’s not obligation. It’s joy. And when you experience that joy, it overflows. You can’t help but give, help, restore, connect. Not out of guilt or shame, but out of gladness. Out of the simple truth that you’ve been given everything, and now nothing you have belongs to you alone anymore.

Joy in Suffering: The Paradox

Here’s where Christian joy gets truly countercultural: it coexists with suffering.

The apostle Paul, writing from imprisonment, tells the Philippians: “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4). He doesn’t say this when circumstances are comfortable. He says it while chained in a Roman prison, facing possible execution.

Later in the same letter: “I am being poured out like a drink offering… yet I am filled with joy” (Philippians 2:17-18).

Peter echoes this: “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials” (1 Peter 1:6). And more directly: “Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed” (1 Peter 4:12-13).

Notice what they’re not saying: they’re not saying suffering is good, pain is wonderful, or trials are enjoyable. Peter explicitly acknowledges the “fiery ordeal.” James writes: “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance” (James 1:2-4).

This isn’t toxic positivity. This isn’t denying real pain. This is the testimony that joy (rooted in God’s sovereignty and our reconciliation) can exist alongside genuine sorrow and pain.

Think of it this way: a mother sitting vigil at her child’s hospital bed at 2 a.m., exhausted and terrified. In that moment, she receives a text from a friend: “I’m praying for your son right now. You’re not alone.” In that same moment (while the fear remains, while the uncertainty hasn’t changed), something else becomes true: she is loved. She is held. She belongs to a community that sees her pain and shows up. That’s not happiness about the situation. That’s joy underneath the sorrow. Grief and gratitude, fear and faith, simultaneously.

Paul himself testifies to this paradox: “sorrowful, yet always rejoicing” (2 Corinthians 6:10). Grief and joy, simultaneously. Not one replacing the other. Both true at once.

This isn’t contradictory. This is the reality of Christian joy. Joy isn’t the absence of difficulty. Joy is confidence in God’s presence within difficulty. It’s the deep knowing that your suffering is not meaningless, that Christ suffered too and conquered death, and that you belong to Him regardless of what happens.

And that confidence has power. Real power. When life is threatening to crush you (whether through loss, betrayal, illness, injustice), Gospel joy becomes a stronghold. It’s not a feeling that makes pain go away. It’s a deep knowing that enables you to endure. The joy of the Gospel sustains us when circumstances would otherwise crush us.

As Paul writes elsewhere: “I can do all this through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13), spoken in the context of contentment and joy even in hardship, not luxury.

Advent Week 3: The Breakthrough

Advent moves liturgically through the seasons of the soul:

Week 1 (Hope): Longing for God to come, the promise that deliverance is possible
Week 2 (Faith): Acting as though God’s word is true, moving our feet even when outcomes seem impossible
Week 3 (Joy): The breakthrough: experiencing the grace we’ve been waiting for and responding with celebration
Week 4 (Love): Understanding the source of it all

We don’t arrive at joy through effort. We arrive at joy through grace. And when grace breaks through the walls we’ve built, when reconciliation becomes real, when we suddenly understand that we’re loved: the response is joy. Not manufactured. Not forced. Not a decision we make through sheer willpower.

Joy.

What This Means for Us

Frank Cross’s transformation in Scrooged echoes something deeper: the pattern of conviction, repentance, and change we see in the Gospel. But here’s the crucial difference: Frank Cross’s joy flows from human moral reformation. The Gospel’s joy flows from Christ’s finished work and our reconciliation with God through His substitutionary sacrifice.

Advent reminds us: transformation is possible. It’s not too late to turn around. Grace is available now. The response to grace is not grimness or obligation. The response is joy.

Our culture peddles manufactured happiness. It tells us joy comes from consumption, achievement, distraction, control. It tells us if we work hard enough, acquire enough, achieve enough, we’ll finally be happy. But that joy always points to the next thing. It’s never complete. It never satisfies.

Advent offers something different: deep joy rooted in reconciliation with God. This joy isn’t earned. It’s received. And it produces the opposite of self-interest. It produces generosity, connection, restoration. It produces the kind of joy that overflows into the world around us.

Jesus wants you to have His joy. The full measure of it. Not because you’ve earned it. Not because you’re worthy of it. But because grace is real and reconciliation is possible and His joy is available to anyone who receives it.

But this isn’t just theology for your mind to understand. This is an invitation your heart can receive right now.

Stepping Into Joy This Week

If you’re facing a season where joy feels distant (grief that won’t lift, circumstances that won’t change, pain that’s carved deep grooves in your soul), this invitation isn’t for you to manufacture a smile. It’s an invitation to something deeper.

It’s an invitation to consider: What if reconciliation with God is real? What if the full measure of His joy is available to you? Not in spite of your circumstances, but underneath them. Beneath the sorrow. Available in the present moment. Not a promise that pain will go away, but a presence that will sustain you through it.

It’s an invitation to repent of the walls you’ve built: the ways you’ve protected yourself, isolated yourself, told yourself it’s too late for grace. To turn around. To let the Spirit encounter your hardened heart and testify: you are mine. You are loved. You are reconciled.

And then to experience what Frank Cross experienced in Scrooged: the explosive, irrepressible, almost reckless joy of being made new. Of being given a second chance. Of having the relationship with God restored. But more than that: to experience the Gospel joy that goes even deeper, that rests not on your continued effort but on Christ’s finished work.

And to let that joy overflow.

The Joy of the Gospel

The angel didn’t approach the shepherds with grim duty. He approached them with news so good, so radically transformative, that it demanded celebration. Good news. Great joy. A savior born. Reconciliation made possible.

That’s the Gospel. That’s the news Advent prepares us to receive.

And the response? The response is joy. Wild, irrepressible, uncontainable joy.

That’s available to you. Not because you’ve earned it. But because grace is real.

In Advent Week 3, we celebrate that breakthrough. We acknowledge the moment when longing becomes reality, when faith moves toward fulfillment, when grace breaks through and joy becomes possible.

Frank Cross laughed with a joy that transformed not just him, but everyone around him. His generosity changed lives. His reconciliation healed relationships.

But Frank Cross’s joy, while beautiful and real, ultimately depends on his sustained effort and moral reformation. Gospel joy (the joy Advent points us toward) depends entirely on what Christ has accomplished and what God offers freely.

What might happen if you let that Gospel joy in? The radical regeneration of being made entirely new? What transformation might be possible? What walls might break open? What reconciliation might be restored? What generosity might overflow?

That’s the invitation of Advent Week 3.

That’s the Gospel joy that can’t be contained.

As you move through this third week of Advent, consider: What walls have you built that might need to come down? What reconciliation has the Gospel made possible for you? And what joy might be waiting on the other side of repentance?

Don’t just consider it. Name one wall. This week, speak it aloud: to God, to a trusted friend, to yourself. Invite Him to break it open. Let Him encounter your hardened heart. And then: celebrate it. Don’t contain it. Let it overflow.

Looking Ahead to Week 4: Love

As Frank Cross discovers in Scrooged, joy without love is incomplete. His transformation isn’t just about his own happiness: it’s about how that joy overflows into love for others. His generosity, his reconciliation, his restored relationships all flow from a heart that’s been broken open and healed.

That’s where Advent Week 4 takes us. From the breakthrough of joy to the source of it all: love. God’s love, poured out. Grace made visible. The love that broke through Frank Cross’s walls and makes transformation possible.

Next week, we’ll explore what it means to truly put a little love in your heart: not as sentiment, but as the deepest reality of what God offers us in Jesus.

Until then, let that joy overflow into every relationship you touch.

Grace and Courage to you this week.

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Week 2 of Advent: Faith When Everything Says Quit

This is part 2 of the Advent Blog Series. Start with Hope, then Faith, then Joy, and finally Love.

What Die Hard Teaches Us About Acting Like God Is Telling the Truth

There’s a scene in Die Hard that perfectly captures what faith is. John McClane, barefoot and bleeding, is crawling through broken glass on the roof of Nakatomi Plaza. Every visible fact screams at him: you’re outmanned, you’re hurt, you’re alone, you’re going to die. The terrorists outnumber him twelve to one. He has no shoes, no backup, and no realistic chance of winning. Everything argues for surrender.

Instead, he keeps climbing.

Faith isn’t confidence in yourself or your circumstances. It isn’t the absence of doubt. It isn’t having everything lined up perfectly. Faith is confidence in God that moves your feet. It’s doing what’s right when everything visible contradicts it, because you trust God more than what you see. Faith always involves your feet.

The Problem With Our Understanding of Faith

We often treat faith like an emotion. We think it means feeling confident about the future, or believing that things will work out, or having a sense of peace about outcomes we can’t control. If we feel uncertain, we worry we’re failing at faith. If we feel anxious, we think our faith is weak.

But this is backwards.

(A quick but important note: if you’re struggling with clinical depression, anxiety, or trauma, your feelings aren’t a faith failure. Your nervous system may be protecting you or processing what you’ve experienced. Faith and mental health are not opposites. If you’re in real psychological struggle, you need and deserve real support—therapy, medication, community—alongside your faith, not instead of it. This reflection is for those able to choose action; it’s not a judgment on those whose circumstances or health prevent it.)

Faith in Scripture isn’t about your feelings. It’s about your actions. The Apostle Paul, writing to the church at Corinth, says something remarkable: “We live by faith, not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5:7). Note what he doesn’t say. He doesn’t say “we feel by faith” or “we believe by positive thinking.” He says we live by faith, meaning our actions, our choices, our feet moving forward, not by what we can see.

The writer of Hebrews defines it: “Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1). Faith IS assurance. It IS conviction. That’s emotional and relational—we’re talking about trust, about deep confidence in God’s character. But here’s the crucial part: that trust moves your feet. Your emotions and your actions aren’t opposites; they’re connected. Real faith is trust that leads to action, and real action is grounded in trust, not willpower alone.

Think about what Abraham did. Genesis 12 tells us that God called Abraham to leave his homeland, his relatives, his father’s household. And “Abraham left, just as the Lord had told him” (Genesis 12:4). He didn’t have a GPS. He didn’t have a detailed map of where he was going. He had a promise. And based on that promise alone, he packed up his life and went.

The writer of Hebrews reflects on this: “By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going” (Hebrews 11:8). That’s not confidence in the outcome. That’s faith in the one making the promise. Choosing to act as though God is telling the truth, even when you can’t see the evidence yet.

Faith as Action in Impossible Circumstances

John McClane shows this. What makes him faithful to his mission isn’t that he believes he’ll win. What makes him faithful is that he acts as though saving the hostages matters more than his own survival. He doesn’t have confidence in his own ability to win. He has commitment to what’s right. He doesn’t have certainty about the outcome. He has determination rooted in something beyond himself.

This is the kind of faith Advent calls us toward. Not the warm, fuzzy feeling of Christmas carols. Real faith. The kind that acts when the outcome seems impossible.

Consider the Apostle Peter. Jesus tells him, “Feed my sheep” (John 21:17). Later, Peter is arrested for proclaiming Jesus. The authorities beat him, threaten him with death. Every visible fact says: stop preaching about Jesus or you will die. What does Peter do? He goes right back out and keeps preaching. Acts 5:41 says he “left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing because they had been counted worthy of suffering disgrace for the Name.”

That’s not confidence in the outcome. That’s faith acting anyway.

Or consider the three Hebrew men, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, facing the fiery furnace. King Nebuchadnezzar gives them an ultimatum: bow to his golden image or be burned alive. Here’s what they say: “If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king. But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up” (Daniel 3:17-18).

Notice this: they’re trusting in God’s power, but they’re also making it clear that even if God doesn’t save them, they’re still not bowing. That’s faith. Faith isn’t “I’m confident I’ll be rescued.” Faith is “I’m doing what’s right regardless of the outcome.”

The Raw Cost of Faith

Die Hard doesn’t shy away from showing us what faith costs. McClane’s feet bleed. He’s exhausted. He’s terrified. He loses people he cares about. By the end, he’s barely conscious, held together by determination and nothing else.

The New Testament doesn’t shy away from this either. Hebrews 11 is often called the “hall of faith.” It lists people like Abraham, Moses, Samson, and Gideon. But notice what it says about them:

“None of them received what had been promised, yet they were all commended for their faith. They admitted that they were foreigners and strangers on earth… Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them” (Hebrews 11:13-16).

These faithful people never saw the fulfillment of what they believed. They died while the promise was still outstanding. But they kept walking toward it anyway. That’s faith with bleeding feet.

And here’s something important: their faith included lament. Abraham grieved that Sarah was barren. Moses cried out against God’s silence. The Psalms are full of cries of anguish from people who were deeply faithful—who kept their commitments to God even while wrestling with pain, loss, and unanswered questions.

Faith isn’t always “act your way to hope.” Sometimes faith is “grieve faithfully. Question faithfully. Lament faithfully. And still show up.”

If you’re facing loss that won’t change—a diagnosis that won’t reverse, a broken relationship that can’t be restored, a wrong that won’t be made right—faith doesn’t mean pretending it’s okay. It means walking forward into grief while still trusting that God sees you, that your pain matters, and that God is still God. Sometimes “putting one foot in front of the other” is done through tears.

Faith as Reliance, Not Self-Reliance

John McClane succeeds not because he’s resourceful or clever, but because he abandons reliance on conventional resources. No weapons. No backup. No support. He can’t win by being smarter or stronger. The only thing he has is determination to do what’s right.

This mirrors what Scripture says faith is. The theologian L.L. Morris defines it: “Faith is the attitude whereby a man abandons all reliance in his own efforts and achieves the attitude of complete trust in Christ, of reliance on him alone.”

Faith isn’t self-reliance pumped up with positive thinking. Faith is the opposite of self-reliance. It’s acknowledging you cannot save yourself and trusting God to save you.

Jesus said something shocking: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 5:3). Poor in spirit means those who have given up relying on their own spiritual resources, their own efforts, their own righteousness. Those are the ones blessed by God.

Paul writes about this in Romans: “For we maintain that a person is justified by faith apart from the works of the law” (Romans 3:28). You can’t work hard enough to be right with God. You can’t earn it. You have to trust God to give it to you. That’s faith.

But here’s something the Die Hard narrative gets wrong: you’re not meant to climb this mountain alone.

Abraham didn’t leave alone—he took his household with him. Peter was strengthened by the apostolic community. The three Hebrew men faced the furnace together. Scripture is full of people whose faithfulness was sustained by community. John the Baptist pointed people toward Jesus, not toward isolated heroism. The church gathers to encourage one another, to witness to one another’s faith, to remind one another of God’s promises when we can’t see them ourselves.

If you’re trying to live this way—trying to act as though God is telling the truth when everything visible says quit—you need people. You need a community that will:

  • Believe when you can’t
  • Hold you up when you’re bleeding
  • Call you back to faithfulness when you’re tempted to despair
  • Grieve with you when loss happens
  • Celebrate with you when God shows up

“Putting one foot in front of the other” is easier when someone is walking beside you. And that’s okay. That’s not weak. That’s biblical.

Advent and the Call to Faith

Week two of Advent focuses on faith. This is when the Church historically shifts from Hope (God will come) to Faith (Acting like God’s word is true). It’s when we move from longing to action.

John the Baptist embodies this movement. He preaches repentance. He calls people to turn around, to change direction, to act as though the kingdom of God is actually breaking in. He doesn’t do this because he sees clear evidence that it’s happening. He does it because he’s been given a promise, and he’s acting on it.

And then comes the moment when Jesus appears, and John says, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!” (John 1:29). Even then, John doesn’t hold on to his disciples. Even then, he points them toward Jesus. He acts as though his own importance doesn’t matter, as though serving God’s purposes is bigger than protecting his own position.

That’s faith in action.

Faith for the Broken and Weary

Here’s the beautiful thing about the kind of faith Advent calls us to: it doesn’t require that you be strong or confident. It requires only that you act as though God’s word is true.

You don’t have to feel brave. You don’t have to feel like you can win. You just have to put one bloody foot in front of the other and keep climbing.

Maybe you’re facing something impossible right now. A diagnosis. A broken relationship. A financial crisis. A question about your faith itself that won’t go away. Every visible fact is telling you to give up, to surrender, to accept defeat.

Advent whispers something different. It says: act like God is telling the truth. Act as though His promises matter. Act as though your faithfulness matters, regardless of whether you can see how it will all work out.

This is what faith is. Not confidence. Not certainty. Not warm feelings or a sense of peace.

It’s bloody feet on broken glass, climbing anyway.

It’s doing what’s right when everything visible says quit.

It’s abandoning reliance on your own resources and trusting instead in the God who has promised to come, to save, to restore.

This Week’s Reflection

What impossible thing are you facing right now? What visible facts are telling you to surrender?

This week, notice where faith shows up in action. Notice people who are doing the right thing even when the outcome is uncertain. Notice the small acts of faithfulness that don’t make headlines but change the world.

And ask yourself: What would it look like for me to act like God is telling the truth? What would change if I put my feet on the ground and started climbing?

But also ask: What do I need from my community right now? Who believes when I can’t? Who will walk with me?

And if you’re in a season of loss, grief, or depression: What would it look like to lament faithfully this week? To bring your whole self—including your pain—to God? To let yourself be carried by the faith of others when you can’t carry your own?

The promise is real. The God who made it is faithful. And faith, true faith, always involves your feet.

But it also involves your heart. And it includes your people.

Yippee-ki-yay.

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Week 1 of Advent: Hope in Brokenness

What is biblical hope?

When Edward Scissorhands emerges from his dark castle, he is met with the gap between longing and capacity. Where hands should be, there are only scissors. He was created for gentleness, but his form makes tenderness nearly impossible. He cannot hold what he longs to touch. He cannot embrace what he loves.

This is Week 1 of our Advent series, where we explore four themes at the heart of the season: hope, faith, joy, and love. Each week, we’ll use a unique “Christmas” film to help us understand what Scripture teaches about preparing our hearts for Christ’s coming. If you haven’t read the introduction to this series, you can start there to understand how these unexpected stories illuminate biblical truth. This week, Edward Scissorhands teaches us about hope.

This gap, this inability to be what he was meant to be, becomes the image through which we’ll explore our own condition. But to understand biblical hope, we must first name what brokenness really is.

We are broken not because we were poorly designed. We were created in the image of God, deliberately and with goodness (Genesis 1:27, 31). We are broken because we rebelled. We chose our own way over God’s way. We are, in the deepest sense, not incomplete but corrupt—not missing something, but turned against Someone. This is the Fall. This is sin. And this is the reality that hope must address.

When Edward steps into the world with his scissors for hands, he faces a gap he didn’t choose. But you and I face a gap we did choose—a separation from God that we created through willful rebellion. And yet, this is where hope begins: not with the absence of brokenness, but with the choice to trust in a God who comes toward us anyway.

What Is Biblical Hope?

Before we go deeper, let’s be clear about what we’re talking about. Biblical hope is not the same as optimism or wishful thinking. It’s not hoping that things work out the way you want. It’s not positive thinking or denial of your circumstances.

Biblical hope is confidence in God’s faithfulness and His promises, even when your circumstances don’t reflect that promise yet. It’s an anchor—something that holds steady when everything else is unstable. It’s what you hold onto when the visible evidence argues against trusting anyone or anything.

Theologian Charles Spurgeon captured it perfectly: “Where hope is, there is faith; where faith is, there is God.” Biblical hope isn’t about your feelings or your situation. It’s about the character and faithfulness of the God you’re trusting.

This is the hope we’re exploring this week. Not optimism. Not denial. But a deep, theological trust that God is faithful, that He works through brokenness, and that His promises are true even when you can’t see them yet.

How Biblical Hope Grows in Suffering

So what does this kind of hope actually produce in a broken life? The Apostle Paul writes to the church at Rome: “We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us” (Romans 5:3-5).

Notice the sequence. Suffering comes first. Not joy. Not comfort. Suffering. Yet somehow, through that suffering, perseverance develops. And through perseverance, character. And through character, hope emerges. Hope is not the absence of difficulty. Hope is what you discover on the other side of faithfully walking through difficulty.

Edward’s story shows us this pattern. His brokenness is undeniable. The suffering is real. But through that broken form, something extraordinary emerges.

What Edward’s Brokenness Reveals

When Edward first meets Peg in his dark castle, she sees him as incomplete. But she doesn’t see him as disqualified. She brings him home. The neighborhood discovers that his scissor hands, which should render him useless, instead become the instrument of his greatest gifts. He creates art. He tends yards. He gives generously of himself, asking nothing in return.

His incompleteness doesn’t prevent him from serving. It becomes the means through which he serves.

This is the movement of grace. God doesn’t wait for us to be fixed before he offers us the opportunity to participate in his transformative work. He meets us in our brokenness and says: this is exactly where I work.

Paul understood this intimately. He wrote about his own incompleteness, his own struggle: “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do… So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me… What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death?” (Romans 7:15, 21, 24).

And then the answer: “Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!” (Romans 7:25).

The deliverance doesn’t come when Paul becomes complete. It comes when Paul fully trusts the One who is complete. It comes when he stops looking at his own hands and looks instead toward Jesus.

This is the movement from despair to hope. And it requires a shift in focus. It requires vision.

The Vision That Sustains Hope

Edward faces a choice at every moment. He can focus on what he cannot do with his scissors hands. He can despair at the gap between who he wants to be and what his form allows. He can fixate on the obstacle.

Instead, he chooses a vision beyond himself. He focuses on the people he wants to serve. He focuses on the beauty he can create. He focuses on the life he wants to participate in. And from that vision, he acts.

This is what hope does. It shifts your perspective from obstacles to God’s promise. Not denial of reality, but confidence in what God has already accomplished and promised to complete. Hope is choosing to focus on God’s faithfulness rather than on the size of your problem.

Paul writes: “For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known” (1 Corinthians 13:12). This is the Christian’s vision: not clarity about how everything will work out, but certainty about who we will finally become when we stand before God. It’s not about seeing the future. It’s about knowing the One who holds the future.

For Edward in the film, that vision is a life of purpose despite his limitations. For us, that vision is something far greater: a promise that we will be made new, that our brokenness will be redeemed, that one day we will stand whole before God, fully known and fully loved.

Recognizing Hope Already at Work in Your Life

Here is something crucial that Edward’s story teaches us: his hope isn’t theoretical. It isn’t waiting. It’s demonstrated through action. He doesn’t wait until his hands become real to begin serving. He doesn’t wait until he’s accepted to begin loving. He acts now, in his incompleteness.

And you are doing this too. Right now. In ways you may not even recognize as hope.

The parent, exhausted and running on fumes, who kneels down to look their toddler in the eye and whispers, “Let’s try that again”—that’s hope. The friend who sits with you in your depression even though they’re drowning in their own—that’s hope. The person at work who keeps showing up with integrity and gentleness in an environment that punishes both—that’s hope. The one who says “I don’t know if what I’m doing matters, but I’m going to do it anyway”—that’s hope.

These are not small things. These are not insignificant. These are the ways hope looks in actual life. Not grand gestures. Not perfect circumstances. Just a broken person, choosing to trust in God’s faithfulness, and acting as if that trust is real. You know this. You’ve lived this. You’ve done this.

Paul describes this in Ephesians: “As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins… But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in our transgressions… And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 2:1, 4-7).

The promise isn’t that you’ll become complete before God loves you. The promise is that you’re loved now, in your incompleteness. And that love transforms you.

Hope When Everything Argues Against It

But Edward’s story also shows us what hope looks like when the world rejects it. When the community he served turns against him. When he’s blamed for something he didn’t do and exiled back to his castle. When everything visible argues that hope was foolish.

Even then, Edward’s faithfulness doesn’t end. Snow falls on the suburb where Kim lives. Ice sculptures drift down as tokens of his continuing care. His love doesn’t diminish because it’s rejected. His commitment doesn’t disappear because the world says he’s wrong.

This too is part of Advent hope. Because the Incarnation itself was resisted. Jesus came to his own, and his own did not receive him. The light came into the darkness, and the darkness fought against it. But that rejection didn’t cancel the promise. That exile didn’t end God’s commitment to redeem his broken creation.

Advent calls us into this kind of hope. Not hope that promises everything will work out the way we want. But hope that trusts in God’s faithfulness regardless of how the world responds. Hope that acts as if the promise is real even when there’s no evidence visible yet.

The Part of You That You’re Most Ashamed Of

Here’s where the real challenge begins. Edward’s scissors are visible to everyone. Your brokenness—your scissors—you’ve likely learned to hide. The part of you that you’re convinced disqualifies you, that you believe makes you unfit for love or purpose, you keep tucked away. Maybe it’s your anger. Maybe it’s your fear. Maybe it’s your inadequacy as a parent, your failure in your career, your inability to be what you promised you’d be. Whatever it is, you know it. And you hide it.

But what if that’s backwards? What if the part of you that you’re most ashamed of—your scissors—is precisely the instrument God wants to use to create beauty? Not despite it. Not in some distant future when you’ve fixed it. But through it, now, as it is.

Edward didn’t become worthy of love by fixing his hands. He became an artist through his hands exactly as they were. His limitation became his gift. This isn’t metaphor. This is what grace does. It doesn’t heal your scissors by making them hands. It says: “I see your scissors. I see how they’ve hurt you and others. I see how they’ve held you back. And I’m going to teach you to use them to serve. Not in spite of what you are, but because of what you are.”

The question isn’t: When will I be fixed enough? The question is: What would it look like to offer my brokenness to God and ask Him to show me how to use it?

Living as Though the Promise Is True

Here is the heart of Advent hope: recognizing that Christ has already come once, is with us now, and promises to come again to make all things new. Because of this, we are free to live differently—not to earn hope, but to express it.

Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30). Notice: the invitation isn’t to get yourself together first. It’s to come broken, burdened, and weary—and to find rest not through your effort, but through his.

This week, respond to that grace. Not in theory, but with your actual life.

First, identify your scissors. Write down specifically—not vaguely, but concretely—what part of you do you believe disqualifies you? What brokenness do you hide? What failure do you carry? Write it down. Fold the paper. Tuck it into your Bible at Romans 5:3-5 (where Paul tells us that suffering produces perseverance produces hope). Let that placement be a prayer: “I’m acknowledging this to God. I’m not hiding it anymore.”

Then, look for the evidence of grace already at work. Look at this past week. Where did you show up despite your scissors? Where did you do the hard thing anyway? Where did you serve, love, or persist when you had every reason to stop? Name one specific moment. Write it down. These aren’t evidences that you’re strong or capable. These are footprints of the Holy Spirit, evidence that grace is already at work in you, right now, exactly as you are.

Finally, this week, do one deliberate thing. Identify your scissors. Now find one specific, small way to use that very thing to serve someone. If your scissors are your anger, maybe you use it to fight for someone who can’t fight for themselves. If your scissors are your anxiety, maybe you use it to notice and comfort someone who’s struggling. If your scissors are your failure, maybe you use it to offer grace to someone else who’s failed. Don’t hide your limitation. Don’t wait until you’re fixed. Offer it. Use it. Let your brokenness become the instrument of your service, just like Edward’s did.

This is the beginning of hope. Not because you’ve become whole. But because you’re offering your brokenness to God and asking Him to use it. And you’re watching Him do exactly that.

Because that is what Advent hope is. It’s the God who came in Jesus, who is with you now in your scissors and your shame, and who promises to come again and make you whole. And while you wait for that wholeness, He’s teaching you to create beauty with the very hands you hate.

This Week’s Practice

Identify your scissors: What part of you are you most ashamed of? Write it down. Fold it. Place it in your Bible at Romans 5:3-5 as an act of honesty before God.

Recognize grace at work: Think back to this past week. When did you show up with your scissors anyway? When did you do the hard thing? Write it down. That’s hope.

Use your scissors: Choose one specific way to let your brokenness become the instrument of your service. If your scissors are your anger, use it to fight for someone. If your scissors are your anxiety, use it to notice and comfort. If your scissors are your failure, use it to offer grace.

This is Advent hope. Not waiting to be fixed. But letting God teach you to create beauty with the very hands you hate.

The God who came is with us. And he is coming again.